Members mofirefly Posted November 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted November 5, 2009 Hi - It breaks my heart to read of your loss. The loss of your dad, which was somewhat easier to bear I understand because when my dad died, he too was older and seemed to fade away. The loss of your beloved granddaughter tho - I'm at a loss of words - and that she was taken while you mom is still with you would indeed make you question WHY???? But we aren't aware of why things happen, we simply see what is in front of us. I would suggest you might read the posts on the board for loss of a child (there is one topic Grief & Healing from a Christian Biblical Worldview that was started by 4reverjoeysmom). The posts you read can be a tremendous amount of support because they are written by others who have had to endure the loss of someone they treasured. Try each day to take time for yourself...finding a place where you don't have to put on a mask to cover how you are really feeling...and let your real emotions flow thru you, they will become easier to bear someday....take your own time to mend....and I truly believe you will become a better person. Take care! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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