Members Krantz Posted July 26, 2016 Members Report Share Posted July 26, 2016 The past two months have been extremely devastating and depressing. I'm missing Adam every second, every minute, every hour, every day.. I've been having lots of thoughts of just getting away for a little while. Maybe traveling somewhere by myself. Have you had thoughts of doing the same? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members velvettuberose Posted July 26, 2016 Members Report Share Posted July 26, 2016 56 minutes ago, Krantz said: The past two months have been extremely devastating and depressing. I'm missing Adam every second, every minute, every hour, every day.. I've been having lots of thoughts of just getting away for a little while. Maybe traveling somewhere by myself. Have you had thoughts of doing the same? Yes, I have. However, I have anxiety and going places Walter and I used to visit together is very uncomfortable for me. Yet...I can go 50 miles away from home. I went to Myrtle Beach, SC, last week and it was not a good choice. I was not ready. But if you think traveling brings you comfort and helps you clear your head for a while, do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted July 26, 2016 Moderators Report Share Posted July 26, 2016 Sometimes it's sounded appealing but money is a factor. If you think it'd help you and you can do it, go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Krantz Posted July 26, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yeah I don't think I'm quite ready. It will be hard because we always traveled together and I know it wouldn't be the same. I'm just so lost.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members velvettuberose Posted July 27, 2016 Members Report Share Posted July 27, 2016 1 hour ago, Krantz said: Yeah I don't think I'm quite ready. It will be hard because we always traveled together and I know it wouldn't be the same. I'm just so lost.. It is normal to feel lost. It is still very recent. Is there anything that brings you comfort? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trawna Posted July 27, 2016 Members Report Share Posted July 27, 2016 I tried this, but for me it was not a happy experience, as all I thought of was how much I would have enjoyed it if only I had my husband with me. Two years later, I was okay with a cruise, and five years later I actually took a trip I enjoyed. I think it depends totally on what will work for you. Do what you feel will be best ,,, getting away from everything, or aiting for a while. But certainly experiencing new things does help to refocus on your new life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted July 27, 2016 Moderators Report Share Posted July 27, 2016 Maybe baby steps... I've taken short trips, a few hours away, that's all. With sisters, friends, not alone. Maybe someday I'll brave one alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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