A healing message

[angelzone]

"The most beautiful people we have ever known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have pulled themselves out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.  Beautiful people do not just happen."

 

 

Elizabeth Kubler Ross

[wgreenlee]

Angelzone...

 

I hope that is true.  I do not want to live my life in the depths of grief.  Thank you for the reminder.

[Dariens Mom]

So very true when my son Darien passed I was devastated I really felt like I couldn't breathe anymore..my son 26 years old had a very tragic motorcycle accident..it still doesn't feel real..his birthday is in two weeks and I know its going to hurt to miss our regular way of saying happy birthday to him.

I had just moved out of state and I got the phone call that he was being airlifted

The last flight back had already left..I had to wait until the morning..by that time he was gone..I still can't breathe. .he was my breath..

[TearsInHeaven]

Hello Dariens Mom,

I am so sorry for your so recent and difficult loss of your son.  Please join our support group on Loss of an Adult Child.  I just passed my 9 month mark on my loss and I can tell you that the group on this site is so compassionate, understanding and listen to all you have  to say.  There are several members that are further along in their grief journey and share so much.  

 

http://forums.grieving.com/index.php/topic/41-loss-of-an-adult-child Sorry this did not work as a link but you will see the site.

 

I found them only a couple of weeks after I lost my son and have found comfort, advice and many listening ears in this group.  When you find there is a silence and no where to take your grief, the many wonderful people here will give you a voice.