Members DanielJames11 Posted January 20, 2015 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2015 I lost my son on 12-15-2007. He had Dygeorge syndrome which caused him a lot of problems with his heart and his immune system. He was 4 months old and had to have his 2 heart surgery and never recovered. I just tried to block it out and take care of his mother and everyone one else and just put my self to the side. Then 4 years ago i got divorced from his mother but not before i had my 2 ND child. He is healthy and happy but it almost seems that i don't get to enjoy it him because i have lost my faith and worry about what could happen. This is no way to live and as you can see i have never talked about this so i come here to find someone who had gone through the same things and ask what do i do. I want to be a strong man for him and my new wife. Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jupiterkat007 Posted March 16, 2015 Members Report Share Posted March 16, 2015 I am in the same boat. I lost my daughter to a terrible event. This was back in 2003. I now have a 10 year old and I am so concerned about her well being at all times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mydeepestthoughts Posted April 29, 2015 Members Report Share Posted April 29, 2015 I am so sorry to read about your loss, and the heartache that you are enduring. As a parent the last thing that we can envision is the death of our child. As individuals we grieve in many different ways, past influences can make it difficult for us to be able to communicate when we are in pain. This can cause problems in our relationships. If you were to communicate your fears with your current wife, she maybe able to give you at times the reassurance that you need.I see that you mentioned that you have lost your faith...This can happen, especially when we are taught that when a child dies that it's God's will, that he needs another Angel. But is that what the bible teaches?James 1:13 Reads "When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried, nor does he himself try anyone." A God of love would never do something to make us suffer. So why does man grow old, and die? Why is there so much suffering and death? Why did God allow your child to die? Is there hope for dead loved ones? For the answer to that, and many other bible based answers to questions you may have I invite to you to click on the following link...http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/dead-live-again-tract/dead-live-again/May you find comfort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members wgreenlee Posted May 6, 2015 Members Report Share Posted May 6, 2015 Jeremiah... Anytime you want to talk, I'm always ready to listen. Wade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members durgaprasadzone Posted June 1, 2015 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2015 Thanks for info...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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