Members cindyjane Posted May 11, 2014 Members Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Hello EVERYONE Being it is Mother's Day many of us who have lost a mother will have heavy hearts today. That is normal because we miss our dear moms. I miss my mom every single day and I expected that today I will miss her more but I am going to let the tears flow when they come, I will cherish the good memories that pop into my head throughout this day and I will remain forever grateful for having her in my life. I want to wish all mothers out there a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! take careCindy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JillyAnna Posted May 13, 2014 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2014 Hello Every one I need to share this with others who are deeply grieving right now. As my dear Mother passed a few days ago, 1 day before my daughter's birthday and then here is Mother's day.My father passed in March he was 90 and Mother was 89. She fell and broke her hip a year ago, but with having Dementia she was in her own world, but still recognized my Fatherand me, as we went daily to visit her and some times 2 times a day. I was their care giver for 5 years having been diagnosed with MS in 2001. Yes there were some very trying days with bothparents, daily long visits to the hospitals, on days went. Now I feel so lost, angry, hurt, number, just to mention a few. thanks for listening JillyAnna Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jjl Posted May 15, 2014 Members Report Share Posted May 15, 2014 Hi Jilly Anna,I am sorry. I lost my mom in late January, but it feels like just days ago especially now. Mother's day was very hard for me. Tomorrow is her birthday. It's a hard week for me.You're experience and pain is uniquely your own because you had a unique and special relationship with your mom. Some days I'm better than others. I can only say that being aware and accepting your sadness and grief is all you can do. It's a process. I'm trying to be present in my emotions when I can be, but sometimes the rest of life's obligations distract me (sometimes I seek out distractions myself). It's good and healthy that you expressed yourself through this forum. There are going to be especially hard days and triggers that we must accept. I wish I could say more. I'm sending you a virtual hug.I'm sorry for your pain and loss. I'm here if you need someone to listen or acknowledge you and your feelings.Jess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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