Members Karen.Lyn Posted December 31, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 31, 2013 My blood pressure is higher than I've ever seen it before. I have chest pain and just feel miserable. I miss Andy so much but there were a lot of things that are going on that he should have taken care of. We weren't legally married when we bought the house. I was trying to refinance for a lower payment to help get by on my severely reduced income. Now they tell me they can't because everything has to go through probate and some judge has to declare the house as mine. I have a stepdaughter who would like nothing better than to force me to sell so she could get "her share" never mind that she's been estranged from her father for more than 10 years. Meanwhile, I can't do anything with the property. I can't even try to sell it if I can't make the payments.I have a neighbor, not next door, but kind of catty-corner in the back that took issue with some of my trees. Well, part of my back yard is actually part of the right of way and thereby city property so he was able to go to the city and get permits to cut the trees down. Because my yard is fenced, he cut down the fence too. Then he has the gall to tell me he wants me to pay half of the cost of felling the trees! And in the same breath, he's not responsible for any of the cost of replacing the fence!I'm scheduled for surgery a week from now. All the people who said they'd be there for me. . . it got awful quiet. It looks like I have to hire someone to care for me during my recovery. Sorry about the rant, but I don't have anyone else to share with right now and I had to get it out.K Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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