Members rebecca16128 Posted December 6, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2013 Hello everyone. I'm not too sure what the etiquette is for this, but I found this website through google and just wanted to find some people to talk to. My dad died this July (16th) aged 53 and I was 22. He died of a heart attack really suddenly with no warning. I was away for the weekend before it happened on the Tuesday morning and the police and my mum came and met me off the train to tell me. I just feel like its not real and that I'm living in a nightmare that I will eventually wake up from but every time I think about the fact that I won't be able to wake up it just hits my even harder. I'm an only child and my parents had been together since they were 16 so I feel like its so much harder for my mum so I can't be sad around her. I also feel like that a lot of my friends can't understand this situation because its not meant to happen at this age. I just feel really lost and alone. How do you cope with this feeling? I just feel overwhelmed all the time, and especially with Christmas coming I feel like all I see is adverts about Dads and I just miss mine so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members littlesunshine87 Posted December 8, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 8, 2013 Im sorry for your loss. Im 26 and just lost my dad on the 27th of november,he was only 56. I can relate of exactly what you are feeling,i feel just as lost and lonely. I watched my dad in hospital for 13 weeks deteriorate and get worse till i was with him at the end when he took his last breath. Its still sinking in that i will never see him again,in this life. I was always a daddys girl and always will be. Take care of yourself xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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