Members backyarder1 Posted December 1, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 I just lost my husband 4 weeks ago. He was the love of my life. Every time I ever wished upon a star, I wished that we would be happy and healthy together forever. And now I know that I have to learn to go on without him and some of those thoughts make me feel guilty. I don't ever want to think of being anything but his wife. And yet, I don't want to just dwell in sadness forever. So I know I must go on. But I feel like I am being unfaithful to him to even think thoughts like that.I even feel guilty for getting our finances in order. For taking his name off of the titles of things. I haven't TOUCHED any of his things yet but I imagine I will feel guilty when I start to do that, too.How do you move forward with your life and still be "true" to your departed spouse? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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