Members ginahunt3 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 Does anybody mind that I'm posting here instead of under the grandparents topic? I'll explain why & if there are objections I'll go there. I am grieving the loss of my maternal grandparents. My mom & I lived with them all my life. She worked alot & I always looked to my grandparents for guidance. I'm 36 years old and feel deserted. My grandma was healthy & active at 83 yrs. old except for aches & pains & the doctor found an aortic aneursym which they said was nothing to worry about. On 10/07/05 @ 8 a.m. my grandma went to the hospital for back pain, they admitted her for tests. We got a phonecall @ 1 a.m. that she wasn't going to make it. We got there she was awake & alert but couldn't talk because of the tube in her throat for life support. They removed the machines & put her to sleep. We all left at about 5:30 a.m. to go home. Grandma died at 6:07 a.m. It was totally unexpected. Grandpa was the one with the heart problems who wasn't supposed to live. The drs. always were suprised that he did. He was very active too. It's been almost 3 yrs. & my heart is still broken. My mom & I took care of Grandpa since then. He died March 8, 2006. Now I am a total mess. I have cried everynight since she died & since he died it's only gotten worse. When I lost Grandma I lost my grandmother, my mother & my best friend. Now grandpa is gone & I don't know what to do, I miss them so much it physically hurts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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