Members Dragonfly81 Posted August 19, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 19, 2013 2 months ago my sister died. She was 31 week pregnant with her 4th child and only 33 years old.One night her heart simply stopped, my mum gave her CPR untill medical help came, and operated on her living room floor, to get the baby out and save my sister. The baby survived but my sister died the next morning.A huge part of me has been ripped to shreds, my heart is in pain and sometimes I feel I can't breathe. She was my best friend in the whole world and now she is gone. I can't believe it.She left 4 beautiful children behind, but recently her partner has said I am not to be alone with them, because he disagrees with my choice of shutting my father out ( this is a whole nother story). By doing this he has taken what is left of my heart and stomped on it, I am so lost, so afraid and so down, and although I keep a brave face for others, really I am dying inside...I keep thinking that I should have been the one to go instead, this is such crap, life is crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ModKonnie Posted August 20, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2013 dragonfly81, I am sorry about the loss of your sister and the troubles you are experiencing with her partner. Have you tried to recently talk directly to the partner and express your love for the kids and how you feel? What would happen if you tried? What about a letter? In the meantime, have you considered professional counseling to help you process all of this? Perhaps a professional could offer some good advice on how to resolve the issues and deal with your intense emotions. You can vent, rant, cry and talk all you want here. We will be here to listen and offer encouragement. --ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dragonfly81 Posted August 27, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted August 27, 2013 I feel like throwing up . I feel ill, fysically and emotionally spent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members phantoms shell Posted August 27, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 27, 2013 I hope you the best try to be there for the kids even though your sisters partner is making it hard. Maybe like my sisters husband they feel the children are all they have left of your sister Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dragonfly81 Posted August 28, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 I hope you the best try to be there for the kids even though your sisters partner is making it hard. Maybe like my sisters husband they feel the children are all they have left of your sisterWe all feel that.Yes I try to be there for them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dragonfly81 Posted August 28, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 dragonfly81, I am sorry about the loss of your sister and the troubles you are experiencing with her partner. Have you tried to recently talk directly to the partner and express your love for the kids and how you feel? What would happen if you tried? What about a letter? In the meantime, have you considered professional counseling to help you process all of this? Perhaps a professional could offer some good advice on how to resolve the issues and deal with your intense emotions. You can vent, rant, cry and talk all you want here. We will be here to listen and offer encouragement. --ModKonnieThank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ModKonnie Posted August 28, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Dragonfly81, You are most welcome. How are you doing? --ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dragonfly81 Posted August 29, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted August 29, 2013 Dragonfly81, You are most welcome. How are you doing? --ModKonnieI'm working on som issues but I'm getting better.Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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