Been a while but it still hurts.

[lmnlover]

I lost my mom 4 years ago and it still has not gotten easier. I was 27 when my mom past away and I had always lived with her up until she passed. People always say it gets easier, but for me it has not. Living in our house we lived in together does not really help either. The only 2 people in my family that I have been close to were my grandmother (my mothers mother), and my mother. The house I am living in was my grandmothers, she passed and me and my mom moved in to take care of my uncle at the time. He had down syndrome and couldn't take care of himself, then 3 months later he passed away. That was the worse year ever up until my mom passed away. I still have my moments where I find myself crying heart broken and cannot believe that she is really gone.

[kaycee42]

Hi my Mum passed three and a half years ago, I am older than yourself but I still miss and mourn her terribly not a day goes by when I do not think of her and at times sob in disbelief. However, I do feel that the grief has changed over this time it is not that painful heart wrenching feeling I had at first but more of a sorrow at not being with her on a daily basis as I used to. I am not sure I could have lived in my Mum's house, that must be hard but you must remember it is your house too. Have you had any counselling it might help, I do not know . Anyway I just wanted to let you know you are not alone, take care.