MY Dad died 11 years ago and recently lost my Mom- now what

[Daisylucy]

Feel lost not having any parents anymore. My Dad died suddenly, my Mom to breast cancer. She never really said any goodbyes, i dont think she could. It was tough to see it watching a body give away- and I am nurse- I guess it shocked me more my reaction to her death. How do I go on?

[MissuDad]

Hi Daisy, first off all, I´m sorry for both of your losses :-( second, I think it´s probably a question of time, it´s what everyone, who´s been through something like this, says. I can´t offer you much advice as I´m still to new in the grief matter and still debate daily with mixed feelings

[gambitjr]

Daisy,

Sorry for your loss. How do you go on? Its what your parents raised you to do. It isn't easy, but you can do it. As you know from being a nurse, grieving and feeling the sadness is all a part of healing. We never heal after losing anyone, but we do learn once again to move along. After the loss of a second parent we loose our sense of home and roots. We feel we are all alone. You're mom and dad are more a part of you than you will ever know, and they are with you every step of the way. There is a special bond between mothers and daughters, and do not think for a minute that it ends. Your life now will be your journey which will end one day, and you will be re-united with your parents forever.

Hope this helps,

Al