Members RunXRun Posted February 19, 2013 Members Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 My mother died on December the 6th, and she wasn't the person who gave birth to me. The woman that died was my biological grandma but to me she was my mother, my real mother. I lost my mother and my best friend when she passed away and it's still really hard to deal with it.Yesterday my cousin got into a fight with me over nothing, or over a reason only he knows, and he said: Your mother is still alive, my moms mom isn't.And that hurt me a lot. His mother, my aunt, is my mom's biological daughter. I don't know why he'd bring it up, or what it had to do with anything because I never once said that my pain was more than hers, or that their grief wasn't important - I haven't mentioned my grief to anyone but this forum and my pupa.I just want to stop hurting and for those words to stop ringing in my head because every time I heard "She wasn't your real mother" I start crying because it's really not fair for them, or anyone, to bring that up or mention it.What should I do about this? How do I stop this from hurting so much? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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