Members lost and numb Posted October 21, 2012 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 I lost my soul mate of 31 years.October 10th, 2012. I found him in the floor already gone. I am so lost and I can't stop crying. I hurt so much. I feel like I just can't go on. All th ewell meaning friends and well wishers are gone now. Had a wake yesterday. But am alone today and sitting here. He was a Nascar fan and Sunday was his day. I have the TV on so it sounds like a regular Sunday. But he isn't in his spot on the couch beside me. It is just for noise. This is the hardest thing I hve ever had t go through. I don't know what to do.Thanks for listening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mdanielson4 Posted October 21, 2012 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 You have come to a place where we all share similar experiences. I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences My name is Mike, I lost my wife to Cancer 5/16th of this year. I wish I could tell you I have all the answers and I will help you. The fact is none of us have all the right answers but we all will help you anyway we can. I find much comfort posting here. I consider the members of this site my friends. I hope I may consider you as a friend. We are all headed down a difficult path and when we fall, I have found people here are right there to help you back up. I still cry, I still have bad days. I am alone and have no body close to hold me and tell me it will be ok. I have this site and a few friends around. I may not have the best advise or posts. But I can tell you my intentions are good and I would do anything I can to help make things better for anybody here. I hope you find the comfort I have at this site, there are great listeners here. Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members UnderHis Wings Posted October 21, 2012 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort here.My husband died in September. I had to keep some of the things that remind me of him, but other things just made me cry and I didn't want to look at them anymore. This house is incredibly quiet now. I'm able to do some things that require concentration, but when I'm done I want his company. We can only take one day at a time, I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lost and numb Posted October 22, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 Mike iand UnderHisWings. It is nice to meet you. My deepest sympathys to you both. . I do not know how you have made it through this. I am so lost. He was only 50, and we were suppose to grow old together. We had just ended our first year as empty nesters. Ah, the plans we had ! It was so unexpected and sudden. There are all these "what if's " that have been going through my head..He was the hand to my glove. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bacher123 Posted October 22, 2012 Members Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss. You have come to the right place. I lost my sweetie in a tragic motorcycle accident a month ago tomorrow. Noone knows how to handle this, this is the hardest thing we will ever go through in our lives. One day... no... one minute at a time. We are here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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