Members Bogocz Posted April 17 Members Report Share Posted April 17 Please don't judge but I am a married woman seeing a married man. We don't see each that often but message all the time. Yesterday I found out his mother had just died and I offered my condolences. I don't know what to do now, I know he will be grieving and busy with sorting things out and being there for his children so I don't know if I should contact him or not. Do I leave it a while and give him space or do I message and say I'm here if you want to talk? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted April 17 Moderators Report Share Posted April 17 We aren't here to judge. That said, maybe message him and say you're here if he wants to talk, and then let it go until he contacts you. Understand that this does sometimes change things, I was engaged for a year and he broke up with me when his mom was dying. They don't normally resume relationship once they've done that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bogocz Posted April 17 Author Members Report Share Posted April 17 Thanks for not judging. I messaged and said I'm here if he needs to talk, anytime day or night and he said ok,. thanks 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted April 17 Moderators Report Share Posted April 17 I'm sure he appreciates the gesture. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bogocz Posted April 18 Author Members Report Share Posted April 18 Messaged briefly tonight and he says he feels numb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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