Members Sholl1955 Posted April 1, 2012 Members Report Share Posted April 1, 2012 Just wondering if I should be feeling differently. My Sarah suffererd so much pain the last 6 weeks of her life after a nearly 2 year battle with breast cancer. I am truly thankful that she is no longer in this pain but when people try to reassure me that she is no longer in pain and that she is better off, it is hurtful to me. I would never want her back in that pain, but it does not make the grief less and I miss her so much. It feels as if people think that I should have this huge relief and now go on with life. I know they are well intentioned and do not know what to say and yes,life does go on but at this moment the pain gets worse every day as I adjust to life without her and as I watch her 3 year old and 5 year old grieve for thier mama. I have surely learned what NOT to say to people going through pain and suffering after having gone down this journey with my daughter. Sarah has only been gone since March 14th and it is hard to believe that this pain will get better anytime soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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