Members Popular Post Christiane Posted April 13, 2023 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 It looks like a page out of a book, but it pretty much sums up my feelings... 9 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post LMR Posted April 13, 2023 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 I wonder who wrote it. Lewis perhaps? It pretty much sums up my feelings too. It sounds depressing just to read but it still isn't as bad as the reality. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post Gail 8588 Posted April 13, 2023 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 I wonder if the following is true: For people who have not experienced a great loss, that passage sounds terribly pessimistic and depressing. For people who have experienced great loss, that passage sounds true. The passage from that book strikes me as simply true. Gail 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post DWS Posted April 13, 2023 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 That's from Megan Devine's "It's Okay That You're Not Okay"....first page of the first chapter. 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Christiane Posted April 13, 2023 Author Members Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 Thank you DWS. Now I can get the book.💖 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DWS Posted April 13, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 It's a terrific book for us to have and read. Definitely a companion for our grief. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Popular Post KayC Posted April 13, 2023 Moderators Popular Post Report Share Posted April 13, 2023 It's a favorite, highly recommend. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Popular Post KayC Posted April 14, 2023 Moderators Popular Post Report Share Posted April 14, 2023 13 hours ago, Gator M said: I am not saying we won't learn to function but...for me it will never be the same. Our lives are never the same as it was before. But yes, we can learn to function, it's just different. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post foreverhis Posted April 15, 2023 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted April 15, 2023 This is the essence of it, IMO: "Some things cannot be fixed. They can only be carried." It brings to mind Nora McInerny's TED Talks. I'll post the links as I've done a few times in the past, but this is the quote that hits me every time: "...You understand that what you're experiencing is not a moment in time, it's not a bone that will reset, but that you've been touched by something chronic, something incurable. It's not fatal, but sometimes grief feels like it could be. ... What can we do, other than try to remind one another that some things can't be fixed and not all wounds are meant to heal?" Warning about her talks. She was a young widow, early 30s, and has remarried. These talks are 3-4 years past her first husband's death and some of her presentation includes what I think of as sardonic, humanistic humor. Anyone who feels unready for that to be mixed in with everything else should give these a pass (for now). I find it refreshing and reassuring that she has been so deeply touched by loss and grief (three deep losses in the span of 2 months), but has been able to bring a fullness to how she thinks and speaks about it. It took me nearly 4 years to get to a similar place, though I have no interest in finding a new love. Nora McInerny TED Talk Moving Forward, not Moving On Nora McInerny TED Talk Better than Fine Don't let the title of the second one fool you. Her reference is to the casual small talk of being asked "How are you?" when someone doesn't really want to know. 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shawnt Posted October 19, 2023 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2023 That's from " It's ok your not ok". The book helped me a little. I must warn you though that I cried a lot reading it. If you are very fragile read it another day. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RichS Posted October 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted October 23, 2023 WOW!!! That page pretty much sums up my grief feelings (and probably most, if not all of us here). A few minutes after taking this in, I thought that folks like me are not only fortunate to have had 42 years to love and be loved, but to have not had such a loss much earlier in your life and to have that many more years to have to grieve your loss. Very few of us can move on from this stuff, as outsiders often suggest. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted October 24, 2023 Moderators Report Share Posted October 24, 2023 That is a good book, my pastor often quotes from it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BabaVoz Posted December 12, 2023 Members Report Share Posted December 12, 2023 That's powerful! Sometimes, words hit differently. If you're into expressing emotions through music, consider creating a Spotify playlist reflecting those feelings. It's a great way to share and connect. Plus, if you're looking to boost visibility, there are ways to get real Spotify plays organically. Music has a unique way of resonating; hope you find comfort in your playlist journey! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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