We made a mistake, our cat escaped and in process of getting away from aggresive cat, he got run over

[Simonka]

The summary is basically in title

we made one stupid mistake and this is how it ends

I even put weights on his usual place to create an illusion he is still here

[KayC]

How horrific, your poor cat!  I am so sorry for your loss. 

You can rest assured your kitty is at peace now...

The what ifs blame game happens to most of us going through early grief, it did me when my husband died 17 years ago...it's not that we are guilty of anything but loving them, and the truth is feelings are not facts, but it's that we can't wrap our heads around what happened, and our mind is trying to find some different possible outcome so it searches all the what ifs...

Comfort for Grieving Animal Lovers

A Dangerous Villain: Guilt
Breaking the Power of Guilt
A Dangerous Villain: Guilt
http://www.pet-loss.net/guilt.shtml
http://www.griefhealing.com/article-loss-and-the-burden-of-guilt.htm
https://www.griefhealingblog.com/2019/08/pet-loss-when-guilt-overshadows-grief.html
https://www.griefhealingblog.com/2017/07/pet-loss-when-guilt-goes-unresolved.html

I hope this short video brings you some comfort and peace.

 

[mySia]

I feel your pain.  My cat drowned today snd I just don't know how to cope.

I am sorry you are experiencing this tragic accident.