Members Popular Post Ronni_W Posted November 13, 2022 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 it is really super-weird how my friends and family and loved ones - all of the people who feel quite confident that they really do 'know' and 'understand' me, and think-believe that they really do know and understand me so very extremely very well...but who, nevertheless and despite their own thoughts and ideas about it...just really do not have even the first clue as to how much I really do just miss him, and how much my life has changed without him. Just not the first clue, do they have. It's just really super-weird! (Their perception of me and how *they* think I'm doing, versus how I am really, actually, truly doing.) 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DWS Posted November 13, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 It's soooo frustrating. I've been thinking that I need to create a t-shirt that says "I'm not okay. I still miss him!" 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ronni_W Posted November 13, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 Okay...I promise. If you get yourself one of those, then I will, too -- get myself one of them -- not get you a second one! 🤣.. (Except...do they still have those kinds of kiosks in the malls these days? Way back in the 1980s, they used to, but I don't recall seeing any of them for decades. Am I aging myself waayyy too much here???!) 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted November 13, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 8 hours ago, DWS said: I need to create a t-shirt that says "I'm not okay. I still miss him!" Sounds like a good idea! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DWS Posted November 13, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 15 hours ago, Ronni_W said: ...just really do not have even the first clue as to how much I really do just miss him, and how much my life has changed without him. Just not the first clue, do they have. Yep. Another Sunday morning without Tom making the coffee. He liked his coffee earlier than me so he was always the convenient coffee maker guy. And he's not there at the dining table on his laptop reading comments from his runner buddies bragging about the distances they ran the day before. Just an empty chair reminding me of his absence and it's only myself living this continual pain while others around me are oblivious. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted November 13, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted November 13, 2022 3 minutes ago, DWS said: Yep. Another Sunday morning without Tom making the coffee. He liked his coffee earlier than me so he was always the convenient coffee maker guy. And he's not there at the dining table on his laptop reading comments from his runner buddies bragging about the distances they ran the day before. Just an empty chair reminding me of his absence and it's only myself living this continual pain while others around me are oblivious. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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