Members Cnl22 Posted October 4, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 4, 2022 Hi all, I’m 41yrs old and my mother died of lung cancer in 2017 then my father committed suicide in 2019 because he couldn’t live without her leaving me and my two brothers devastated, I have four children and was with my boyfriend for 24 years until last July when he left me because he couldn’t bare living with me coz I was still grieving for them! It’s left me devastated as I now feel guilty for ruining my children’s life, am I wrong to still be grieving?? Please help!, thank you xx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reader Posted October 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 5, 2022 Dear Cnl22, Please know there is no right way or wrong way to grieve. It's been 6 years for me and I still carry a lot of guilt. Because this is affecting your relationships and you are concerned about your children, I would seek out additional supports in the community or through church. Also consider grief counselling or joining a support group. These websites have a lot of additional supports: What's Your Grief Grief in Common Grief Share Grief Recovery Method Grief Healing Blog Thinking of you. x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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