Members On and Off Posted October 3, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 My husband confessed last night that he’s jealous of my Dad (who passed away 6 months ago). He says I don’t count on him like I did my Dad. That I’m grieving him so hard because he’s the only man I’ve ever loved. I’m at a total loss of what to think. my Dad and I were VERY close. He raised me on his own. BUT - it was a very complicated relationship and not exactly healthy. He expected too much of me and I tried to hard to deliver on those expectations. My husband is my primary emotional support and now I feel like I can’t talk to him about my grief. What to do, what to do. Is it normal for your husband to be jealous of your dead Dad? I don’t think so but who knows. Any advice or perspective is appreciated. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reader Posted October 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 5, 2022 Dear on and off, I am sorry for your loss. Our feeling around loss can be very complicated. I can see how your husband is feeling some jealousy. I think most men like to be the alpha and want to be needed and depended on. It sounds like he wants to feel as important to you as your dad. I don't know if he would be open to going to counselling or joining a support group with you. We all need additional supports during this sad and difficult time in our lives. I hope others will come forward and offer some additional view points. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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