Members Popular Post Lost7 Posted September 5, 2022 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Today September 5th I know it's Labor Day but it's also mark's the day that my husband died January 5th 2022. While other people are celebrating, vacationing their last summer vacation I'm crying and longing for my love.... It hurts so bad. I've asked God please don't let me have these emotions the 5th of every month! I try but the tears still come. It is also my son and his wife's wedding anniversary and I'm trying to get myself together to go watch my grandchild so they can go out and celebrate I'm begging God to please don't let me have his crying spells in front of them. In pain Lost7 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DWS Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 My heart goes out to you. These are significant, meaningful numbers to us as they mark the end of another month we've lived with their absence. Mine is the 23rd. I feel the anxiety building the day before because I just don't want to see the reality of another month gone by without him. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 5, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Dws I know your pain. I wouldn't wish this horror on anyone.. Lost7 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Robert D. Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Lost 7 - I prayed for you Lost 7....I am getting close to that number (11) for the first time....and I dread it....I am in deep sorrow now...today...everyday....and it is really hard to find reasons to go on......but the Lord does have His reasons for our Love leaving...and for us staying behind,....until He calls us too. But for today....be strong....give your love to the Lord, to your husband, your son and daughter in law....and to your grandchild....Keep loving....I will do the same with my buddy who has invited me to go eat.....God bless!! We are here thinking about you today...lifting you up to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ...who has complete control over all things!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 5, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Robert. I receive and accept your prayers. Thank you so very much enjoy your time with your buddy. Blessings Lost7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members April Ballou Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 @Lost7 my heart goes out to you. My husband passed away on Labor day. Wednesday, September 7, it will be 2 years since the love of my life died. I will be praying for you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 5, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 April I am so sorry for your pain. I will be lifting you up. I care for you we will get through this maybe not without some deep scars. Somehow you've made it two years keep going! Lost7 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SDC Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 I'm so sorry. I can relate. My husband had a catastrophic accident on April 15, 2020; I took him off life support April 23, and he died April 25. Those 3 dates hit hard every month for the first year. The intensity lessened as time went on. I'm sure the intensity will lessen for you in time too. All you can do is be kind to yourself, give yourself permission to say no and be alone if that is what you need, and feel what you feel. I know it's brutal. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 5, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Thank you SDC. I truly appreciate your kindness. Lost7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members April Ballou Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 @SDC I can relate. I had to take my husband off life support. But that's not living being hooked up to machines. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Edwin-s Posted September 5, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2022 Some pain cannot be hidden... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted September 6, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted September 6, 2022 20 hours ago, Lost7 said: Today September 5th I know it's Labor Day but it's also mark's the day that my husband died January 5th 2022. This was posted after I'd been here, thinking of you and hoping your day went okay in spite of it being the 5th....nine months out... I'm glad you had a lot of support here, people here are wonderful. (((hugs))) 16 hours ago, April Ballou said: @SDC I can relate. I had to take my husband off life support. But that's not living being hooked up to machines. No, it isn't. I'm sure your husband was grateful you did. If only they could tell us... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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