MY BABY IS DEAD BECAUSE OF MURDER

[blkbarbiett]

ON JUL,11,2011 I STARTED MY DAY AS NORMAL AND GOT READY FOR WORK, I TRIED TO GET DRESSED QUIETLY SO THAT I WOULDNT WAKE UP THE BABY.

MY FIANCE GOES TO WORK A FEW HOURS AFTER ME AND HIS MOM COMES TO WATCH THE KIDS UNTIL I GET HOME. FOUR HOURS INTO WORKING A POLICE CRUISER

ZOOMS UP TO THE FRONT OF MY JOB, HE TELLS ME THAT ONE OF MY KIDS HAD BEEN HURT, TO MAKE A VERY LONG STORY SHORT IM GOING TO SUMMARIZE WHAT HAPPENED, MY

MOTHER-IN-LAW PUT MY ONE YEAR OLD IN A TUB FULL OF SCALDING HOT WATER IT BURNED ALL OF HIS SKIN OFF, HE WAS FLOWN TO A HOSPITAL AN HOUR AWAY BY PLANE AN 8 HOURS BY CAR.

I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 86 DAYS AS I WATCHED HIM SUFFER, HE LOST A LEG, HAD OVER 10 SURGERIES WAS CONSTANTLY IN PAIN, AND SOMETIMES HE WASNT EVEN ALLOWED PAIN MEDICINES CAUSE HIS HEART WAS TOO WEAK AND IT WOULD KILL HIM, HE DIED IN MY ARMS ON OCT,5,2011. MY MOTHER LAW IS IN JAIL, SHE HASNT BEEN SENTENCED YET BUT THEY SAY SHE IS FACING MURDER CHARGES

OF 25 TO LIFE.

I HATE HER SO MUCH, SHE HAS EIGHT KIDS AND HAS GOTTEN A CHANCE TO SEE ALL OF THEM AT LEAST REACH 18, AND MY POOR BABY WILL NEVER SEE HIS SECOND BIRTHDAY,

I HATE THIS WORLD ITS A CRUEL EVIL UNJUST PLACE

I ALSO HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD SON AND A 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND THEY KEEP ASKING ME WHEN IS HE COMING HOME, AND WHY DONT GOT MAKE HIM BETTER SO THAT HE CAN COME HOME.

SHE HAS RUINED MY LIFE, AND MY FIANCE IS A WRECK BECAUSE HIS MOM KILLED OUR BABY, AND HE RECCOMENDED SHE WATCH HIM.

THE OTHER NIGHT MY FIANCE RAN TO THE CEMETARY WICH IS AN HOUR WALK, HE RAN ALL THE WAY THERE IN THE RAIN HOPPED THE FENCE AN LAID ON OUR BABYS GRAVE UNTIL THE SECURITY MADE HIM LEAVE. HE SHOULD BE WARM IN HIS BED NOT COLD IN THE GROUND. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE.

[ModKonnie]

ON JUL,11,2011 I STARTED MY DAY AS NORMAL AND GOT READY FOR WORK, I TRIED TO GET DRESSED QUIETLY SO THAT I WOULDNT WAKE UP THE BABY.

MY FIANCE GOES TO WORK A FEW HOURS AFTER ME AND HIS MOM COMES TO WATCH THE KIDS UNTIL I GET HOME. FOUR HOURS INTO WORKING A POLICE CRUISER

ZOOMS UP TO THE FRONT OF MY JOB, HE TELLS ME THAT ONE OF MY KIDS HAD BEEN HURT, TO MAKE A VERY LONG STORY SHORT IM GOING TO SUMMARIZE WHAT HAPPENED, MY

MOTHER-IN-LAW PUT MY ONE YEAR OLD IN A TUB FULL OF SCALDING HOT WATER IT BURNED ALL OF HIS SKIN OFF, HE WAS FLOWN TO A HOSPITAL AN HOUR AWAY BY PLANE AN 8 HOURS BY CAR.

I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 86 DAYS AS I WATCHED HIM SUFFER, HE LOST A LEG, HAD OVER 10 SURGERIES WAS CONSTANTLY IN PAIN, AND SOMETIMES HE WASNT EVEN ALLOWED PAIN MEDICINES CAUSE HIS HEART WAS TOO WEAK AND IT WOULD KILL HIM, HE DIED IN MY ARMS ON OCT,5,2011. MY MOTHER LAW IS IN JAIL, SHE HASNT BEEN SENTENCED YET BUT THEY SAY SHE IS FACING MURDER CHARGES

OF 25 TO LIFE.

I HATE HER SO MUCH, SHE HAS EIGHT KIDS AND HAS GOTTEN A CHANCE TO SEE ALL OF THEM AT LEAST REACH 18, AND MY POOR BABY WILL NEVER SEE HIS SECOND BIRTHDAY,

I HATE THIS WORLD ITS A CRUEL EVIL UNJUST PLACE

I ALSO HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD SON AND A 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND THEY KEEP ASKING ME WHEN IS HE COMING HOME, AND WHY DONT GOT MAKE HIM BETTER SO THAT HE CAN COME HOME.

SHE HAS RUINED MY LIFE, AND MY FIANCE IS A WRECK BECAUSE HIS MOM KILLED OUR BABY, AND HE RECCOMENDED SHE WATCH HIM.

THE OTHER NIGHT MY FIANCE RAN TO THE CEMETARY WICH IS AN HOUR WALK, HE RAN ALL THE WAY THERE IN THE RAIN HOPPED THE FENCE AN LAID ON OUR BABYS GRAVE UNTIL THE SECURITY MADE HIM LEAVE. HE SHOULD BE WARM IN HIS BED NOT COLD IN THE GROUND. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE.

Xavier's Mommy,

Words just simply won't express how heartsick I am for you and your family. I have no utter idea what to say other than I am so so very sorry about the loss of your baby. Yes, this world is horribly unfair and there are evil people here. I cannot even fathom how a person could do such a thing.

You, your fiance and your children all need to get counseling immediately, both family and individual. I am sure there are resources available through your family's primary care doctor, a community center, health clinic, worship center or even the hospital.

Do you have a support system, such as your family? Your friends? A coworker who can listen to you as you continue to talk about this?

There are many many parents on this forum who have lost their children to horrific tragedies, including murder. They may be able to offer you support and encouragement as you work toward rebuilding your family's life.

We will be here for you,

ModKonnie

[blkbarbiett]

I HAVE FAMILY BUT EVER SINCE THE FUNERAL NOBODY IS COMING AROUND, I THINK THEY ARE TRYING TO GIVE US OUR SPACE AND IT IS THE TOTAL OPPOSITE

WE WELCOME THE COMPANY, MY FIANCE KEEPS SAYING THINGS THAT ARE SCARING ME LIKE HE DOESNT WANT TO BE HERE ANYMORE HE WANTS TO BE WITH THE BABY,

AND THAT WE WILL B ALRIGHT WE DONT NEED HIM, SOMETIMES I FEEL THE SAME WAY TOO, BUT THEN I THINK ABOUT MY OTHER TWO KIDS AD THE DEATH OF THERE BROTHER

HOW BAD IT AFFECTED THEM AND HOW LOOSING US WOULD RUIN THEM, I KNOW WE ALL NEED COUNSELING BECAUSE MY DAUGHTER IS IN THE FIRST GRADE AND THE SCHOOL CALLED ME

LAST WEEK TO PICK HER UP, BECAUSE SHE WAS CRYING HYSTERICALLY IN CLASS SAYING THAT SHE WANTED HER BROTHER, HOW CAN I TELL HER IT WILL BE ALRIGHT, WHEN I REALLY DONT KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT MYSELF.

[hotrod]

Xavier'sMommy

I am so very sorry for the terible pain that you have endured. I visited the photo gallery on the Board and found Xavier's little face and pictures so very precious.

YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS TODAY PlEASE KEEP POSTING HERE!!! IT DOES HELP

This is a Hard difficult road we parents travel but when we do it together we are supported by people who truly understand.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

[blkbarbiett]

Xavier'sMommy

I am so very sorry for the terible pain that you have endured. I visited the photo gallery on the Board and found Xavier's little face and pictures so very precious.

YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS TODAY PlEASE KEEP POSTING HERE!!! IT DOES HELP

This is a Hard difficult road we parents travel but when we do it together we are supported by people who truly understand.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH IT DOES HELP TO KNOW THAT I AM NOT ALONE EVEN THOUGH AT TIMES IT FEELS AS IF I AM.

[hotrod]

Hi Xavier'smommy

Glad that you feel connected on this very safe Board The parents all post to the "Adult Child Section" so that is the reason few have seen your post. Even if Xavier is only a tiny child you will be welcomed and understood.

Please join us there Go to the Section. Click on "reply" and post

Keep cmoning back