Members k8smum Posted January 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2008 i need to ask a question. we are all struggling to survive without our children. it is a devastation that we had to lose our children before our own lives. but why is god always praised but never blamed? why does he get to go thru the universe guiding supposedly but never having to take responsibility for our losses? why are we supposed to accept there is some great plan for the universe that necessitated the death of children?? the idea that god needs our children to become is angels is not biblically sound. i don't mean to start a big theological discussion. i respect everyone's faith and am grateful we can find comfort where we can. but i take responsibility for my failings and mistakes; why not god?? while he may have lost a son, he never carried him under his heart, tucked him into bed or sang him songs to scare away the thunder.i have an anglican/catholic background but have walked a different path after 5 yrs of watching children die of various cancers. again, my intend is not to disparage anyone's faith. i just am seeking answers to questions that i asked myself in the green glow of cait's IV machines while watching her sleep.annie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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