Members Janaki Posted March 9, 2019 Members Report Posted March 9, 2019 The answer I am searching for... Grew up without knowing him Arranged marriage and all fine Always been working Always I am also earning Traveled alone to different cities Time never bothered me anyway.......... Arrived midnight in the airport and reached home happily moved to a different city to earn and help the family Had both beautiful and conflict years Settled with all differences - accepted few, changed few, ignored others I took decisions I showed aggressions One sad episode took him away from me Leaving a permanent scar in me One question all my family, friends & other well-wishers always ask me...... Are you fine to travel alone How can you stay lone Bombarded with questions - bachelor or family The answer I myself don't know sadly I did everything alone Now I am again single, why am I doubting my capability all alone
Members Sunflower2 Posted March 9, 2019 Members Report Posted March 9, 2019 6 hours ago, Janaki said: why am I doubting my capability all alone I believe this is a very natural feel. We understand. Grief travels are unique and different. You will begin to see your strengths and your ability to no longer doubt your capacity to be alone. warm thoughts are we you as you as you begin this healing process. . Be gentle with yourself. Know you can't bypass these excruciating painful and sad feelings. Reach out and receive support when it feels right just to you and for you!
Moderators KayC Posted March 9, 2019 Moderators Report Posted March 9, 2019 I've been alone 14 years, I know of nothing harder...yet I was alone before him and okay...losing him changed everything.
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