HOPE for the future

[ModKatB]

I have been writing again and wrote this today.

 

In the beginning you feel like your heart is broken in a million pieces.

Not wanting to live another moment without the one you love.

Feeling like your whole world is going to colapse in on you at any minute.

Then comes the part where others tell you that in time it will get better.

Most of us are sure that we will never breathe again without feeling the pain of being alone.

Well it does get easier to deal with somewhere down the road.

Truth be told though there is no set time table for this to happen.

Each of us has to find our own way and what works for one might not work for others.

It is a long journey and I will not try to tell you that it is an easy one.

You will never forget them, stop loving them or stop missing them.

But I will say that there is HOPE.

There will come a time where it doesn't hurt so much to remember the good times.

There also will be memories that will make you smile.

Remember this.... Grief takes its own path and we each have to find our own way.

Even if it means you can only live moment to moment for now.

[beaniele]

I have been writing again and wrote this today.
 
In the beginning you feel like your heart is broken in a million pieces.
Not wanting to live another moment without the one you love.
Feeling like your whole world is going to colapse in on you at any minute.
Then comes the part where others tell you that in time it will get better.
Most of us are sure that we will never breathe again without feeling the pain of being alone.
Well it does get easier to deal with somewhere down the road.
Truth be told though there is no set time table for this to happen.
Each of us has to find our own way and what works for one might not work for others.
It is a long journey and I will not try to tell you that it is an easy one.
You will never forget them, stop loving them or stop missing them.
But I will say that there is HOPE.
There will come a time where it doesn't hurt so much to remember the good times.
There also will be memories that will make you smile.
Remember this.... Grief takes its own path and we each have to find our own way.
Even if it means you can only live moment to moment for now.

It has been an especially two hard days. There is no specific reason but the tears have been falling .

Thank you for your words. I know in time they will help me a lot.

I always thought of myself as a strong person but since my loss I see it was because of my relationship with my darling husband..

Linda

[Pmarie]

Grief, I’ve found, has a mind of its own. It only lifts only when it decides to. Meanwhile it must be endured. None of us knows how long it will take and we have such little control over it. That’s ok, because grief has a mind of its own.