Members ashre Posted October 12, 2010 Members Report Share Posted October 12, 2010 My best friend had a wonderful sick-free pregnancy. I spent lots of time with her b/c her husband was in Iraq. I too am married with a 2 yr.old. My friend wanted to get the whole pregnancy expirence so she wanted me to be her lamaz coach. I went along with it and we had a good time. when her delivery date came and went her doctor decided to do a c-sec. (her husband made it) right after delivery she knew something was wrong b/c he didn't cry. the nurses rushed him to another hospital and later to indy. My friend was so upset they wouldn't let her go she couldn't even hold her baby. After 24hrs they let my friend leave which is amazing. while in Indy they discovered the baby to have a diaphoretic hernia and needed surgery. to make a long long story short they waited 6 days to do the surgery so he can be strong. surgery went well but later that evening complications started and he passed away at 6 days old. We are so upset. I have no words for her, her husband will be leaving soon to finish out his term in iraq and she will be left here. I need advice b/c all we do is cry together. His funeral is coming up this week. It just pains me b/c she didn't even get to hold him while he was alive. I just need prayers and advice. we feel so lost. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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