Members lovedones Posted January 6, 2010 Members Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 I lost my mom on Jan 1st. She was ill for quite awhile. I know she is in a better place with no pain or suffering. I thought I was ready for this but when the time came I knew I wasn't. Three years ago we lost dad. It was after dad passed that we knew something was wrong with mom and her forgetting things were not from taking care of my dad. With my dad he had his mind right up to the end. His body just gave out on him. I had the time to talk with him about how much I appreciated everythng he did for my sons and I. We lost my husband almost 12yrs ago. My husband was 38yrs old. He died suddenly. Both of my parents were my rock through everything. Mom's mind went so very fast I didn't get the chance to talk with her like I did with dad. Even though over the years I was always telling them that what they did for my sons and I, I would never forget. I could not be with mom the day she passed. The weather was bad and due to my health problems everyone told me I shouldn't go. I would not be able to handle it. I feel so guilty for not being there for her when she needed me the most. I keep telling myself that she knows how I feel about her and that I could not have gotten through my husbands death without her. I know in time I will come to terms with this but right now it is all I can think of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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