Members NTP Posted August 9, 2020 Members Report Share Posted August 9, 2020 My husband died suddenly on July 28 2020. He was shot by his girlfriend that I didn't know he had. I have so many regrets as I am recalling times that I was mean and not very sensitive. I took him for granted. I feel that the pain will never go away. I am racked with guilt. A ny words of of encouragement would be welcomed 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Darlene13 Posted August 9, 2020 Members Report Share Posted August 9, 2020 @NTP. My husband died the same day as yours. I am so very sorry, but we are in this boat together and can comfort and support each other along the way at least. Please try not to blame yourself...I have things I regret too, but guilt and remorse only make the journey harder and change nothing. I'm always open to listen if you need a sympathetic ear..hang in there and I'll be praying for you, friend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DJB Posted November 19, 2020 Members Report Share Posted November 19, 2020 I agree with Darlene, yes we all have regrets . All we can do is to support each other , one day , one step at a time. Tonite is very bad for me . I feel like everything is so wrong and everywhere I look there are reminders . A couple who walk in front of our house waved , as they always did , I don’t think they even know he passed . I screamed,cried , and I feel like I can’t do this . I feel so defeated , beaten down like I can’t take one more day of this . Then I come on here , and I see others with my pain , I’m not alone . I will pray for you for strength and courage for you to keep going. I’d really appreciate prayers also., my friend . Donna Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Destiny Lee Posted December 21, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 21, 2022 I feel the same. Cannot forgive myself for things I said. I was only responding to hurt, but still find it impossible to forgive myself. I should never have said some of the things I said over the years. He had hurt me deeply in the past many would have left, but I stayed and after a long time it had been good for years. I had bitterness and walls. I should have given him credit for the many good things he had done for me. Sadness overwhelms me, I feel like a bad person, miss him, hope he didn't suffer (coroner said cardiac event) and want to just go to sleep and not wake up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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