Members Pacmansmom Posted November 17, 2019 Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2019 I will never move on from my firstborn son, Kyle. It will be 2 years on January 21st...the pain deepens, the wound still so very fresh...People may only hear me speak of Kyle because Kyle isn’t here to speak for himself. I am very much aware that I have another son, I adore Gavin, he’s my life, he’s all I got left in this world.I go insanely mad when people assume Gavin is neglected because I am grieving Kyle. Gavin is grieving Kyle, Gavin supports me in whatever it takes to survive.Losing a child comes with added pain & loss...people abandon you, they completely don’t understand how much your core has been shaken, how you’ll never be the same & how the trauma has literally physically, mentally and spiritually broken you. Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Michelle73 Posted February 5, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 5, 2020 I too lost my son, he was 26. I agree that we will never “move on” from the death of a child. Instead we must “live on” We have no other choice, especially when we have other children, even grown ones, who still need us. There will always be a hole in our hearts that can’t be filled, and some days it feels like it is consuming us from the inside out, but we must live on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vswilliams Posted June 4, 2020 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2020 I will never move on from my firstborn son, Kyle. It will be 2 years on January 21st...the pain deepens, the wound still so very fresh...People may only hear me speak of Kyle because Kyle isn’t here to speak for himself. I am very much aware that I have another son, I adore Gavin, he’s my life, he’s all I got left in this world.I go insanely mad when people assume Gavin is neglected because I am grieving Kyle. Gavin is grieving Kyle, Gavin supports me in whatever it takes to survive.Losing a child comes with added pain & loss...people abandon you, they completely don’t understand how much your core has been shaken, how you’ll never be the same & how the trauma has literally physically, mentally and spiritually broken you. Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.comI am a part of this group called GriefShare, and that is literally about what they talked last night—insensitive people. You know what you are going through even if others don’t. According to the video, people sometimes just say whatever because of their ignorance or inability to comfort. You grieve anyway. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself. He was your baby. It’s ok.Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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