Jump to content
New Members - Check Your Spam/Junk Folder for Confirmation Email ×

“Your youngest son is now your focus, you have to move on”


Pacmansmom

Recommended Posts

  • Members

I will never move on from my firstborn son, Kyle. It will be 2 years on January 21st...the pain deepens, the wound still so very fresh...People may only hear me speak of Kyle because Kyle isn’t here to speak for himself. I am very much aware that I have another son, I adore Gavin, he’s my life, he’s all I got left in this world.

I go insanely mad when people assume Gavin is neglected because I am grieving Kyle. Gavin is grieving Kyle, Gavin supports me in whatever it takes to survive.

Losing a child comes with added pain & loss...people abandon you, they completely don’t understand how much your core has been shaken, how you’ll never be the same & how the trauma has literally physically, mentally and spiritually broken you.8aab8335ce36d0ba755e2958632b7186.jpg

 

 

Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.com

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Members
Michelle73

I too lost my son, he was 26. I agree that we will never “move on” from the death of a child. Instead we must “live on” We have no other choice, especially when we have other children, even grown ones, who still need us. There will always be a hole in our hearts that can’t be filled, and some days it feels like it is consuming us from the inside out, but we must live on.

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Members
vswilliams

I will never move on from my firstborn son, Kyle. It will be 2 years on January 21st...the pain deepens, the wound still so very fresh...People may only hear me speak of Kyle because Kyle isn’t here to speak for himself. I am very much aware that I have another son, I adore Gavin, he’s my life, he’s all I got left in this world.
I go insanely mad when people assume Gavin is neglected because I am grieving Kyle. Gavin is grieving Kyle, Gavin supports me in whatever it takes to survive.
Losing a child comes with added pain & loss...people abandon you, they completely don’t understand how much your core has been shaken, how you’ll never be the same & how the trauma has literally physically, mentally and spiritually broken you.8aab8335ce36d0ba755e2958632b7186.jpg
 
 
Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.com

I am a part of this group called GriefShare, and that is literally about what they talked last night—insensitive people. You know what you are going through even if others don’t. According to the video, people sometimes just say whatever because of their ignorance or inability to comfort. You grieve anyway. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself. He was your baby. It’s ok.


Sent from my iPhone using Grieving.com
Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

This site uses cookies We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue. and uses these terms of services Terms of Use.