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Jenn Lenk

In may my dad passed away was his caregiver and he was my best friend and two days after my dad passed away my husband asked me for a divorce and we have four children together and now he keeps coming back every day wanting me to forgive him and let him back in the house and he's sorry he loves me he has put me through so much stuff through our whole marriage and relationship I don't know if it's worth it but then again  I love him and my kids need him and my husband also suffers from PTSD  so  I don't know what to do and I'm confused. i have been with him for 14 years he's all I know I love him but I hate him any suggestions are open on the table


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Dear Jenn,

I'm very sorry to hear about everything you are going through. I know its tough. Please consider talking to a therapist or joining a support group. I guess all I can say is do what you feel is best for you and your kids. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

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I have seen many people with PTSD, may I ask what it is from? I would offer to take slow steps to allowing him back in if that is what you want. If he was so willing to leave before that means it is in him again. On the other side you have to be patient and willing to give him a chance. I would have a calm conversation about expectations and then write it down and sign it. This way it is more real and you can refer back to it if a conversation is getting too heated. I would also have these conversations away from the children in a public place to allow for a distraction if need be during the conversation that is not kids.

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