Members silverkitties Posted November 12, 2015 Members Report Share Posted November 12, 2015 I was inspired to start this thread by one of MSN's posts when she quoted from Carrie Underwood's "See you again." For some, if not many of us, music has long served as markers for stages in our lives and our various moods. Personal losses can change the way we feel about the music we've listened to over the years. Sometimes songs we never liked begin to register for us in a new way while old favorites acquire new meanings or become enhanced. There are also new (or old) songs we discover that hit the spot so exactly. What songs have struck you these days? I'm going to post a favorite from 1977: Electric Light Orchestra's "Shangri-La." I have liked it ever since I first heard it at the age of 14--particularly the wonderful ending, a unique fusion of rock and classical. Listening to it nearly 40 years later, I am struck all the more by its sheer beauty and how it captures that sense of melancholy and grief now that I'm feeling--even if this is meant to be a song about lost love. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aE3YKdL5YG8 What's the use of changing things,Wonder what tomorrow brings,Who knows,I'm getting out of love.My Shangri-la has gone away,Faded like the Beatles on Hey JudeShe seemed to drift out on the rainThat came in somewhere softly from the blueThe next verse really gets to me as I think of the day she died--as it was overcast and began to pour soon after she passed. Clouds roll by and hide the sun,Raindrops fall on everyone,So sad,I'm getting out of love.Where is my Shnagri-la?The last 2 minutes are out of the world--I will return to Shangri-la. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silverkitties Posted December 8, 2015 Author Members Report Share Posted December 8, 2015 Here's another--Natalie Cole's remake of her then deceased dad's famous hit, "Unforgettable." When I first heard it, I found it remarkably clever in its weaving of voices and now I appreciate it all the more. (Note: this song now reminds me of Missionblue and her dad, with their love for classic films.) Here it is in concert: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PdBKXdc4dgw UnforgettableThat's what you areUnforgettableTho' near or farLike a song of love that clings to meHow the thought of you does things to meNever before has someone been moreUnforgettable in every wayAnd forever more, that's how you'll stayThat's why darling it's incredibleThat someone so unforgettableThinks that I am unforgettable tooUnforgettable in every wayAnd forever more, that's how you'll stayThat's why darling it's incredibleThat someone so unforgettableThinks that I am unforgettable too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members mariesgirl1953 Posted January 3, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Bette Midlerthe wind beneath my wings The Rose These are my mam's favorite songs and also from a distance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mariesgirl1953 Posted January 3, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 And also by Bette MidlerFrom a distance And I also listen to in the arms of an angel by Sarah McLoughlan I'm not sure if my mam has ever heard this song but the words are so beautiful and really powerful In the arms of an angel - Sarah McLoughlan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silverkitties Posted January 3, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Marie, just the other day, I was thinking of that Sarah Mclachlan song too--Angel! Thank you for posting that. There's something about it that is so calm yet sad. I like Bette Midler's "From a Distance." I can still remember hearing if for about the first time around the week when my mom left for Taiwan and my first cat--a long-haired torbie--died. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Marivdb Posted January 4, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 For me I'll never be able to listen to Karen Carpenter sing Rainy Days And Monday's again. I grew up listening and singing along to Karen with my mom...and that song just fits my mood since she's been gone.Talkin' to myself and feelin' oldSometimes I'd like to quitNothin' ever seems to fitHangin' aroundNothin' to do but frownRainy days and Monday's always get me down.What I've got they used to call the bluesNothin' is really wrongFeelin' like I don't belongWalkin' aroundSome kind of lonely clownRainy days and Monday's always get m downYou get the picture................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mariesgirl1953 Posted January 4, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 Your welcome Silverkitty ☺ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mariesgirl1953 Posted January 4, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 *sorry silverkitties ☺☺ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silverkitties Posted January 4, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 Marivdb, "Rainy Days" brings back so many memories of my youth in the Bronx. But the song that really gets to me is "Superstar." For some reason, it already struck me as a melancholy song when I was 8--the first time I heard it. It's a song I also tend to associate with rainy days at home, with memories of my mom cooking in the next room as I read played with my dolls or read. Listening to it more than 40 years later--after the passing of my mom--brings back such inexpressible sadness. Another song that gets to me too is the Moody Blues "Nights in White Satin." It's a mournful song that I associate with the time when my mom was away from me for an extended period as she got surgery. And now, my mom is not returning:( The one that really gets to me now, tho', is Roberta Flack's "The First Time": I associate it w/ the same occasion....I remember not liking it too much at that time since I was 9. Yet, over the years, I came to find the song extremely moving--so serene, yet sad. There's something about it that is almost like a lullaby. I remember wanting to listen to it sometime after my mom's memorial service and I just cried and cried, remembering my memories of my mom then and now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmpSWlVdKmo And of course, there's the Beatles' "Long and Winding Road." I remember the day I walked to the vet's knowing that my first cat would be put to sleep the day after they told me that her breast cancer which had returned after her surgery 2 years earlier had returned. When I walked in, the radio happened to be playing that song and I broke down right there. "Bridge over Troubled Waters" makes me want to cry more than ever: but it has also grown more beautiful and wonderful to me. What a work of genius. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silverkitties Posted January 4, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 As for the 80s, I love Taylor Dayne's "Love will lead you back." This is another song that I've long associated with one of my mom's departures to Taiwan. Again, it's doubly sad to me knowing she won't ever be returning this time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZ1qLW2WBZk Love will lead you backSomeday I just know thatLove will lead you back to my armsWhere you belongI'm sure, sure as stars are shiningOne day you will find me againIt won't be longOne of these days our love will lead you backOne of these nightsWell I'll hear your voice againYou're gonna say, oh how much you missed meYou'll walk out this doorBut someday you'll walk back inDarling I know, I know this will be There's Whitney Houston's "Run to You." This song didn't use to make me sad, but now the following verse really gets to me now: Each day, each day I play the roleOf someone always in controlBut at night I come home and turn the keyThere's nobody there, no one cares for meWhat's the sense of trying hard to find your dreamsWithout someone to share it withTell me what does it mean?I wanna run to you (oooh)Won't you hold me in your armsAnd keep me safe from harmI want to run to you (oooh)But if I come to you (oooh)Tell me, will you stay or will you run away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ikaros Posted January 12, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2016 Wow. Yep, I got feels over the songs you guys suggested. Forgive my silliness, being flippant helps me cope sometimes. Oldies. Those make me cry. I love every style of music. But my mom and I used to listen to the Oldies. When she died there were several that sent me over the edge, not the least of which was one of my favorites, 16 Candles. It's not even about dying or loss of love. But something in the gentle longing makes me cry every time. Also, Skeeter Davis singing The End of the World... It's really a simple little song but gets me all the time. https://youtu.be/Qgcy-V6YIuI Sometimes I'd find one that would just make me laugh through the tears, like Fats Domino's Ain't That A Shame, it's so catchy and fun but still seemed relatable to my mom's passing. I think she would have laughed with me. I'm having a hard time copying youtube links. But I would say I have three songs that make me cry about my mom even when they are seemingly unrelated by subject matter and they are: Jeff Buckley's "Hallelujah" Talented Jeff who walked into a river and never made it out. Iron & Wine's "Flightless Bird American Mouth" Modern Jukebox's Oldies style cover of Radiohead's "Creep" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members silverkitties Posted January 13, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted January 13, 2016 ikaros, being flippant helps me too! Sometimes, that's all you can do to keep yourself sane--to see the crazy, zany, loony in everything. I honestly did not know that song by Skeeter Davis "The End of the World": I have long wondered about it and now I know! I can see why you think 16 candles sounds melancholy too. I am not as familiar with the Jeff Buckley song....I somehow remember that you rewrote it sometime ago here? It is wistful--and I understand how you reinterpreted it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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