Members bonnie46 Posted June 23, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 on may 9th,2009 .it seems as thou everything stopped.my son had just dropped his daughter off with her mother. he went about 5 miles down the rode and lost his life at the hands of 2 idots. he was going down a rode on his motorcycle,when 2 guys coming the other way, decited to drag race. they were coming down a streach of highway that had a blind hill, and a double yellow line, going100 mph as they crest the hill they hit my son. the police said he never knew what hit him. that didnt help at all. it also killed a 19 year old with one of them. only God knows how i feel ,and his 3 children,18, 19, 15and his 3 brothers .its a mess ,i cry all the time ,but i cant let any see me cry. we need help, please someone help . Jerrys mom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ericasmom Posted June 23, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Here we are Jerry's Mom, and we do know the horror of what you are dealing with right now, I am so sorry. This is very early on in your shock and loss to find a place like this, so I am very proud of the ways you are already finding help.Your Son must be greatly missed by so many people right now, and you sound like you need to find ways to help everyone. First is you however. You are his Momma, and you are reaching out to a group of folks that want to know everything you want to tell us. You will not shock us nor make us too sad, so don't even worry bout that. We are simply a group of regular people who have also lost our bearings when we lost our Child.It makes the best sense for you to post on the Loss of Adult Child. So when you go to forums, go to loss of child, and then look in the sub-headings for loss of adult child. There are very many new to this loss like you, posting with us. Some of us have been here for over 5 years and some just joined us last week. WE are a large group right now, very friendly and very helpful. At this early stage, you need to just keep reaching out when you can't sleep, or when you are worried about your son's children, or whatever it is, there will be many that surround your posts with well spoken suggestions. My name is Dee, I post everyday, sometimes many times, especially in the summer because I teach and have the summers off. I lost my 19 year old in July of 2003. I am one of the Oldies here. We're here for you, dee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mikesmomrs Posted June 23, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Jerry's mom: I am so very sorry for the loss ofyour son, Jerry. As Dee said in her post, we are a group of people who share our pain, offer comfort and understanding. Please come join us on the Loss of Adult Child forum. You are so new to this pain, it may hurt to talk about it right now, or it may be that that is all you want to talk about...we are there for whatever way you wish right now. Nothing is normal...we all grieve differently, but we all have the same thing in common: Part of our heart is missing and our lives will never be the same. Our "normal" will never be the same. I lost my son, Mike, to brain cancer on Oct 14, 2006, and he left behind three children, also, who are now 13, 12 and 4. Please try to take only one day at a time, and when necessary, only one minute at a time. I found it most helpful to try and stay in the moment...thinking ahead was killing me. love and peace,carol mikesmomrs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mikesmum Posted June 24, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 [user=32665]bonnie46[/user] wrote: on may 9th,2009 .it seems as thou everything stopped.my son had just dropped his daughter off with her mother. he went about 5 miles down the rode and lost his life at the hands of 2 idots. he was going down a rode on his motorcycle,when 2 guys coming the other way, decited to drag race. they were coming down a streach of highway that had a blind hill, and a double yellow line, going100 mph as they crest the hill they hit my son. the police said he never knew what hit him. that didnt help at all. it also killed a 19 year old with one of them. only God knows how i feel ,and his 3 children,18, 19, 15and his 3 brothers .its a mess ,i cry all the time ,but i cant let any see me cry. we need help, please someone help . Jerrys momJerry's mom - I am so sorry you have lost your boy, your grandbabies their dad. You have found your way here and while we have no answers that can come close to easing your pain, we are here for you.I mainly post on the Loss of an Adult child - it is a place where we all know pain of losing our kids and the flow on from their death.I lost Mike in Jan 2007. He left behind a baby girl. While its been 2 and 1/2 yrs, many times I find myself back at day one.Please come to the Adult child thread when you can and if you are able share your story and Jerry's life......Our kids are so much more than that one fateful day......Trudi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mpsmom Posted June 24, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 Jerrysmom, I am so sorry for your loss, as the moms before me have said, please , when you feel you can, come to the thread 'loss of adult child' and post or just read, we are a family of mothers and fathers all who have lost children, I lost my only child, my seventeen year old daughter to sudden heart death, September 20th of 2008. I miss her terribly everyday, sometimes I feel like I am doing "OK" and other days I am hanging on by a thread. Hugs, Marcia Bethany's Mom Forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 4everjoeysmom Posted June 25, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 25, 2009 Jerry's Mom, My heart and prayers for you... I am so very sorry. The selfish part of me says, NO! Enough pain already in my life! But the love in my heart tells me that if I could in any way carry your burden, I would--just so that you could heal and feel whole once more, as when your precious son was here. Though I cannot do this, I certainly open my heart to walk "with you" along your journey of loss and grief. And I commit to praying for you.With love and hugs, understanding and grief for your pain,4EverJoey'sMom, Claudia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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