Members basic62 Posted March 23, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 23, 2009 I don't know what to say or how to say it but i'll try,i lost my wife of 7 years on march 2nd to a bleed on her brain,no warning signs. we had a great night out with our grandson and youngest daughter,we came home to relax and both fell asleep on our couch,something we did every week.i woke at midnight to her saying she had a massive headache she took a aspirin,and we went to bed. she awoke a half hour later and got sick,less then a hour later she had a massive stroke in our bed.i met her 12 years ago when i jumped off a delivery truck and she was standing there in a pink dress looking so pretty i knew i was in love that moment. a few years later we talked about when we each knew were in love and we both went back to that day. she knew the day may 12.i wont say ours was a perfect marriage but it was very close,we were always together,in 12 years i can count on 1 hand the times we were apart.between us we had 5 kids and in the past couple years that grew to include 2 grandkids,life was great we talked about retiring in 6 years when all the kids would be old enough to be on their own.I watched her pass away in our bed i can still see it happening in my mind,but each day i look at the clock and wonder what she is doing now,when i get home i look again at the clock and think she will be home soon,i have called her cell a few times to see what's going on.i cant seem to get past the point of her death she was only 47 and in great health.Im sorry if im rambling on but this is the way i have been thinking since she passed.i don't know what Im looking for here maybe just to talk about it,i don't know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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