Members greentea Posted January 6, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Hey everyone I'm brand new here, signed up after reading one or two posts and thinking it might help me.I was 8 when my dad died in a car accident and am now 15. I was lucky in that I have a close knit loving famliy and in our tough time our friends gave us loads of support, but I still feel alone while I miss him a way I'm sure you're all familiar with. Like nothing could possibly heal me like it just isn't right that he didn't get enough time that I didn't get enough time wiht him. But its been over 6 years and it's getting worse not better as I get into my mid teens. I think my mom re-marrying has added to the hurt. I agreed to the marrige at the time but now I feel like my mom is betreying my REAL dad everytime I see them together. I don't see the new husband as a father figure AT ALL. I don't want to forget my dad, but I want to stop hurting, I can't hold onto this forever it hurts too much. I need to know is it possible to be okay with ym dad being gone, and how in the world can I make it okay. Or at least make self pretend it's okay. I've missed him for a long time, I just want the hole to close up so I can stop feeling like I need to leav ethe room when my mom or sisters talk about him. please help me if you can, thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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