Members Bren Posted November 4, 2012 Members Report Share Posted November 4, 2012 Hi Everyone,I am glad I have found this site. The sudden death of my mom in a car accident has been very traumatic for me. I find I am not dealing with it very well and find that when I do think about what happened and that she is gone I quickly push it out of my mind because I don't want to believe that it's real. I find that I am a very angry person right now. I am not angry with my mom for leaving me , but I am angry at the whole process in which I have had to deal with. To start with the day of the accident pictures of the accident are showing up online before any family have been notified I saw these picture when my best friend and I were out looking for my mom because her work had called saying she hadn't showed up or called. I saw the pictures and didn't figure the car as my mom's because of the damage. Secondly I had to track down the authorities to find out what happened to her. I finally got to talk to a victims advocate almost 4 hours after the accident. Planning the service was easy compared to agonizing wait we all had to encounter waiting on autopsy results the death certificates and accident report. I finally got all 3 of those items just 2 weeks ago. I find myself when talking to people wanting to talk about my mom all the time. It's like I am obsessed with it or some thing. I find myself crying if someone brings her up to me. I still feel like I have to protect her even after she is gone. When gong through her things and giving items away to family. I got angry and just took it all to my house because I felt like she was being violated. I never in a million years would of thought this would be this hard. I did not react this way to my dad's death 5 years ago. I am sure that this probably won't make sense but this is how I am feeling right now and I just want to reach out to others and get some support from others who have a pretty good idea what I am going through! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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