Members MissingMyMom10 Posted October 17, 2012 Members Report Share Posted October 17, 2012 Anyone else out there dealing with this situation? My mothers funeral was just over 1 month ago and within just a little over 1 week, my father had a 'lady friend' who he seems to be giddy over..?? My parents were married for 57 years and this new 'connection' has really thrown my siblings and I for a loop. We feel like he's not showing respect for our mother and we are now having such an anger / upset / hurt issue over this new 'friend' that I feel like it has completely taken over our time..?? Not only does he have this new 'friend' but she has baggage in the form of a very recent breakup with another man who is not completely out of the picture.. He shows up pounding on her door, calls and harasses her, shows up at the VFW my father and his 'friend' are at... It's like high school drama all over again in the elderly years..?!!! It's just crazy. This gal has had restraining orders against this other man, this other man has apparently been violent towards her physically and now - my father is involved in this entire scary scenario. My family does not need this drama that's for sure, but there's no telling my father anything at this point in time. He says he is NOT going to sit around crying and grieving and that he is moving on with his life.... and this gal will apparently be a part of it. WOW .... Anyone have any ideas on how to move past this myself ?? How to deal with it ?? How to accept it ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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