Members UnderHis Wings Posted September 19, 2012 Members Report Share Posted September 19, 2012 My late husband and I looked at headstones several times and shared our opinions with each other. He loved black granite. I don't know what my finances are going to be, but I've already received criticism for wanting a black granite marker. I don't appreciate being judged for a choice I might make. Unless I'm able to pay for a headstone, I certainly won't order it. Why do I have to be judged for the choice I eventually make? Is it wrong for me to not want to socialize with judgmental people? I don't like the mental stress. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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