Members Fecrabb Posted August 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 30, 2012 Yes I'm strong, yes I was able to keep my head and take care of the arrangements, yes my grief isn't the same as my mom's for loosing a kid or the grief of his wife and kids. No i don't believe in god, no I don't have the support of a church. But damn it I need support too. I don't need advise I don't just need someone to listen I need someone to actually HEAR what Im saying. Even if it doesn't seem like it has to do with grief I still need you to be patient and hear what Im saying, not just my words but what Im actually saying. Many asked how I was doing and if I needed anything that 1st week. Well I was trying to make sure everything was taken care of, I delayed my grief in order to take care of it all. 4 weeks later Now I need my friends but now they seem to be too busy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cant move on Posted August 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 30, 2012 Hi Rayzsis I hear what's troubling you. When my brother past away last year I was the executor so between planning the funeral and everything else that had to be done I didn't have a chance to grieve when the support was being supplied (for lack of a better description) By the time I was ready to begin grieving everyone seemed to have already come to terms with the loss and was moving on already. Trying to talk about it made me feel like I was opening up old wounds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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