Members lifewithtesa Posted August 19, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 19, 2012 These last couple of months have been pretty horrific. On June 3 I had emergency surgery...loosing almost 2 liters of blood, 3 weeks later I loose my grandfather and then 3 weeks after that loss I loose my father. I feel tremendously lost. My dad was my best friend...almost talking to him daily and now... there is a possible malpractice suit gonna happen....Kaiser dragged their feet. I watched my father die drowning to death slowly because his aortic heart valve was not working....see this is something that surgery can take care of but Kaiser waited for almost 2 months to even do a angioplasty on him...and that was after he had been in the hospital for 3 days. The previous week he had been in the ER 3 times trying to get them to help....he could not breathe at all. My dad suffered greatly. Watching as he slowly dies a horrific death...with organ after organ shutting down. I wake in the middle of the night with night terrors of this. Saddness, anger, exhaustion, fear....so many different emotions going on non-stop. I keep hearing I have to go through this...that it will eventually feel a bit better. All I know is that I want nothing more than to talk to my dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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