Members naty0123 Posted July 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2012 Missing my husband so much! I try to do things to keep me busy, but is so hard! I want to talk with him so bad that it comsumes my thoughts all day. I am so scared in this new world. I am a single mom and widow with a blink of an eye! SO UNFAIR!!! I have started talking with a counslor, its pretty nice to talk to someone that doesnt tell me in time things get better. I can't even think about in time!! I think by hour. I dont have no confidence to start things that need to get done! I have been so strong my whole life but this takes a whole new kind of strength...UNAWARE of this strength. I like this site it allows me to express my feelings freely and I dont feel like an outsider on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mdanielson4 Posted July 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2012 Missing my husband so much! I try to do things to keep me busy, but is so hard! I want to talk with him so bad that it comsumes my thoughts all day. I am so scared in this new world. I am a single mom and widow with a blink of an eye! SO UNFAIR!!! I have started talking with a counslor, its pretty nice to talk to someone that doesnt tell me in time things get better. I can't even think about in time!! I think by hour. I dont have no confidence to start things that need to get done! I have been so strong my whole life but this takes a whole new kind of strength...UNAWARE of this strength. I like this site it allows me to express my feelings freely and I dont feel like an outsider on here.You are not alone! I miss my wife more than many can imagine "unless you are going through this like us" but most people I know have not gone through this. I like this site too. It puts me in touch with people that understand when I say things like "The hurt consumes me to the point where I cannot function properly" The people I work with just feel sorry for me and do not know how to respond. Some avoid contact with me so they don't have to address the death of my wife. I know it isn't their fault. It just is so unfair, so many things left unsaid, undone. How do you finnish a project when you and your loved one started it? I truly know what you are saying Munchkin. I cry with you!!!Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dmbarr Posted July 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2012 I know how you feel i feel the same way. I have had people say God is making you stronger. o.k. but what for? why do i need to be stronger? i can't sleep, i wake up and that must be all the sleep i need which isn't much. I can't eat much. I miss him so much, i see him in everything and every where. I can't do anything around the house, its' hard to work. Hang in there, your young things should improve some for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tkrx5rn Posted August 2, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 I have found that very few people understand, unless they have gone through it. My major support has been my youngest sister who lost her husband in 2009. She told me that the happy would come back eventually. I can laugh again, but it has been almost a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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