was she being abusive with me?

[Guest tazz]

question on a abusive mom

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

[UnderHis Wings]

I think your mother over-reacted, but I wouldn't call it slander. She is right to have some sort of consequence for your immature behavior. She was obviously shocked and embarrassed. Then she turned the tables on you and you were embarrassed. So you can accept your punishment, try acting more mature, and see if your good behavior will earn you a reprieve. CPS might suggest counseling. I doubt if they would look at this as child neglect or child endangerment.

[cant move on]

I'm sorry but at 15, and 13 you should be well beyond acting like this. You embarrassed her so she embarrassed you, and then did something to show you that there are consequences for your actions. So where's the problem?