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On 9/21/2024 at 5:38 PM, KayC said:

… The doctor wanted to call me, George told him no, he didn't want to ruin my weekend, I'd worked hard all month, I needed this.

George, you didn't ruin my weekend, it was my LIFE!  How do you think I could enjoy my LIFE without you?!!

Not a day goes by but that I miss you.

Oh Kay I sent <hugs> but that doesn’t seem like enough. I understand your frustration and anger over your husband’s decision.

After a year of unsuccessful immunotherapy for liver cancer, we were in the rehab hospital. I was hopeful and ready for additional treatment when Mark told me he was ready for home hospice. He said please don’t talk me out of this it is time. I knew if I asked him he would continue treatment because he could never refuse me anything, but in retrospect I know he had no quality of life at that point. At least he passed at home as was his wish, but it was the hardest thing I never said.

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I don't feel angry at him, if anything I feel all the more love as I know he wanted to spare me.  But it wasn't the way, there was no sparing from this. But oh God how I love him, we always understood each other.  He was such a sweet man.

Maybe hard but you said what you felt you needed to.  (((hugs)))  We all come from a place of love and caring.

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