Coping with Miscarriage, Stillborn, and Infant Loss

[chrisadam]

1/ Experiencing miscarriage, stillborn, or infant loss is profoundly heart-wrenching. During these times, the presence of a pet can provide a unique form of comfort and support.

2/ Pets offer unconditional love and companionship. Their consistent presence can be soothing, providing a sense of normalcy and routine during an emotionally turbulent time.

3/ The act of caring for a pet, whether it’s taking a dog for a walk or feeding a cat, can be therapeutic. These small responsibilities can offer a sense of purpose and distraction from grief.

4/ Pets have an intuitive way of sensing our emotions. They often respond with affection and gentleness, helping to alleviate feelings of loneliness and sadness.

5/ Engaging with pets can also promote physical activity and social interaction, both of which are beneficial for mental health. Activities like walking a dog or playing with a pet can help lift your spirits.

6/ The bond between humans and pets can be incredibly comforting during times of loss. Pets don't require us to explain our feelings; their presence alone can be deeply reassuring.

7/ While pets can't replace the loss of a child, their companionship can offer solace and a reminder that there is still love and light in the world. Embrace their comfort as part of the healing journey. 

 

[KayC]

Agreed.

[Ashton Swann]

I very recently had my first miscarriage and even though I know it's common it's been extremely difficult and I am overcome with sadness, anger, depression and grief. I am scared I'll never be able to have a healthy pregnancy again. I have 2 children and with my 2nd child I had to do several IVF treatments. I was able to conceive my 3rd child naturally and I felt so blessed and happy but when I lost the baby I basically fell apart emotionally and mentally. I want a big family so much. I would love to have 4 children. I'm feeling scared I won't be able to get pregnant again or if I do this will happen again. I don't think I can handle losing a baby again. 

[KayC]

I went through it too, years ago, I lost three very wanted and loved babies...the one that was the furthest along was 4 1/2-5 months.

Common or not, it's very hard when we go through it.  I wish you well with it.  Stay in touch with your doctor.