Members debbie8800 Posted May 5, 2012 Members Report Share Posted May 5, 2012 Hello everyone;I haven't been on here in awhile. I lost my 87 year old mother 6 months ago. I am better but still devestated without her. As i read the new posts the first few months are usually awful while we struggle with the new loss and try to findour way. I have joined a grief support group and it is helping quite a bit. I have serious housing isses. Can't get my own place till august and i have roommates that are a little kooky. I have started taking good care of myself which Icouldn't do while caring for mom. I am only 53 and i think i have arthritis. I did life mom and putting the wheel chair on the car, etc all takes a toll.I loved my mother so much and would do anything to have her back again. I am at the point now where i remember the good times we had, like driving across country together. I cherish her pictures. I haven't felt a deep love for anything since she died. In august i will have a little extra money and i hopefully will get my own place and a few pets to start off. I have one more week of classes then am hoping to get a job. If no job surfaces I will move out of jersey in late august.Nothing is the same you just learn to live without that person. I cannot believe it has been 6 months. How time flies. Prayers for all for healing, strength, endurance and passion to move forward as the new you without the one you loved.Nameste ~~~Praying for everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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