Members jpmj2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 I'm having a very difficult time finding anyone to chat with about the current process of losing my sister. She lives with me, will be 41 on 1/22/08. I'm her younger sister with two other sisters older than me, an older and younger brother. Does anyone want to talk about the not-so-pleasant thoughts and feelings surrounding being the sole caregiver to someone who is dying? Every place always says, "You're not alone in your feelings," but nothing I read comes close to what I'm feeling. Any takers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lynnielou Posted February 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 22, 2008 Hi Jpmj,I'm sorry about what you're going through. Although I didn't nurse my sister, I was her emotional caretaker until her death on April 13, 2006 at the age of 40. (we were actually cousins, but decided at a young age that we had to be sisters - I never thought of her any other way). We lived 1 1/2 hours apart and spoke 5-10 times a day. She would call, without even saying hello and just start right into conversation. I really miss that. She had been really sick and refusing all treatment. She eventually ended up in hospital and passed 18 days later. I tried to spend my days with her at the hospital and I exercised her limbs to keep them limber, and sang to her and told her how cute her doctors were. Although I haven't gone through what you are now going through, I do know what it's like to know that you are going to lose your sister. Please feel free to email me.Sending you lots of hugs, Linda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lifechange Posted March 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 hi jpmj, i too took care of my father for 4 months. he had a brain tumor and also a stroke so he was in a wheelchair. my father was a youthful 75 years old and because of the tumor and stroke, he couldn't walk on his own, was paralyzed on left side and the tumor was making him forget everything. i know what you are going through. my father died 2 months ago and i miss him. even taking care of him i miss that. it is very hard on the caretaker but in the long run , you are going to look back and say you were glad you did it and that you sister needs you. i would do it over again. it was hard but i knew it wasn't going to be forever and i tried to make his life as good as i could. take care and i hope this helps you go through your days . lifechange Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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