Members Robert D. Posted September 7, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 7, 2022 Coming up on a month soon (11th) since I lost the most precious and sweetest lady I will ever know.....my JoAnn.....just overwhelming grief and sorrow.....she's really gone.....losing her is losing all my reasons for living.....my joy, happiness, her beautiful smile....she was and is what always made me so very happy....All gone. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted September 7, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted September 7, 2022 That is understandable. It may take much time to come through this...and frankly, it's never the same as it was. We adjust our thinking to look for something good in each day, sometimes it's a stretch. It gets better somewhat with practice. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 8, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 8, 2022 Robert My heart aches for the loss of your JoAnn ....my husband was my joy, my soulmate. After 8 months of this unwanted life I am still not able to be who I used to be. I really don't like this measurable sad soul of a person I have become. I continue to pray and push forward. I will continue to lift you and everyone up on this forum . Please accept my virtual hug Lost7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Robert D. Posted September 8, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted September 8, 2022 Lost 7 I'm very sorry for your loss too.. I get a lot of understanding and comfort from yours and others' words in these posts... they give me a very very good idea what lays ahead.... I am living in a world that I did not recognize anymore and never wanted to be in either but fear will be here for a very very long time .....virtual hug back to you and I appreciate it very much! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted September 9, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 @Sim7079 and others from the UK, the rest of the world grieves for you in the loss of your queen... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 @sim7079 Thank you so much for your kind words. You're right I have fallen more deeply and madly in love with my husband (If that is possible) as I have time to reflect on everything he ever meant to me. We couldn't get enough of each other after 37 years our friends would say you guys act like you just met. He would come home whistling everyday and I would be in the kitchen happily cooking his meals. I am so sorry for your loss of your soulmate as I know that pain. And for the queen I am sure we will all miss her. Virtual hug Lost7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members April Ballou Posted September 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 @Lost7Lost7I understand how you feel 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lost7 Posted September 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 April Ballou I pray you are coping today. Lost7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DWS Posted September 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 8 hours ago, Sim7079 said: One thing that is stronger than ever is my love for my husband. I always knew what a wonderful person my husband was, loving, generous, kind funny - my best friend, my everything. I loved his passion for things, his wisdom, basically everything about him. Now that he has passed I appreciate and recognise those qualities tenfold and so sad I can no longer tell him or show him my love. Isn't this the truth! I've been trying not to deem him a saint but I keep seeing more and more evidence that my partner was the perfect one for me. We nicely balanced each other out. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted September 9, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 3 hours ago, Lost7 said: You're right I have fallen more deeply and madly in love with my husband (If that is possible) as I have time to reflect on everything he ever meant to me. Yes, I feel the same, even after all these years... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members April Ballou Posted September 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 I want to thank everyone that thought of me Wednesday. Although I have never met any of you, yall were so kind to wish me well and even praying for me. I had 38 years with my husband Darrell. I'm not sure how many years I will be alone but I'm glad that I found grieving. Com. The forums and people have helped me so much the past two years. Thank you one and all. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators KayC Posted September 9, 2022 Moderators Report Share Posted September 9, 2022 I'm sure you were a great wife. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now