Members Cheymr16 Posted June 15, 2022 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 I lost my mother last month unexpectedly and during my first pregnancy. I take small moments to grieve her when I am alone but i truly don’t know the proper way to grieve her. She didn’t take care of herself mentally or physically so I blame her for not being here when I need her. I also feel selfish for my feelings and that I didn’t ask her to talk to me about her problems. I also feel terrible I didn’t make her get help. I tried a few times but I feel like I could’ve done more. I wish I didn’t distance myself from her in the last few months but I think that’s the only thing that prepared me for this. I feel like I’m handling this all too well and trying to be strong but I worry with my sadness of loosing her and my worries about becoming a mother is going to put me in a spiral during postpartum. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reader Posted June 25, 2022 Members Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 Dear Cheymr, I'm sorry for your loss. Everything you are feeling and thinking is normal and natural. It's important to have extra support. I hope these websites will be helpful. What's Your Grief Grief in Common Grief Healing Blog Grief Share Grief Recovery Method Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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