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Hello everyone,

I lost my dad right after my 19th birthday in 2015 to a year long battle with cancer. My 2 brother lost their dad too although we each had a different version of him. 
I was 100% a daddy’s girl and my older brother was the golden child he worshipped and my younger brother was given scraps. I find it impossible to relate to them on this since one still has anger for my dad and the other is satan reincarnated. 
I have no friends that have lost parent let alone as young as I and I don’t know how to talk about it beside morbid jokes to hide my pain

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Dear CLC44,

Please know you are not alone. Sadly it is not uncommon to have these thoughts and feelings about family members. We all grieve differently and processing these thoughts and feelings are difficult. It is important to be able to talk and felt heard and understood.

I hope you'll reach out for additional supports. There is grief counselling, grief support groups, and these websites also helped me a lot.

Grief in Common

Grief Share

Grief Healing Blog

What's Your Grief

Grief Recovery Method

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